Every family has special traditions, interests, and traits. This is an opportunity to share them. Everything you present at the Bar Mitzvah should be designed to show these qualities so your guests can deepen their understanding of you and let them feel more connected with you. Your entire event should show your guests how you feel about them and also give them a sense of Jewish ideas and tradition.

We Organize Everything can help with the planning of every aspect of your bar or bat mitzvah, including, but not limited to:

• Choosing the date.

• Choosing a theme - usually based on the child's interests, the torah portion, mitzvah projects, upcoming holidays, Jewish ideals, and rituals.

• Helping the child choose and develop a "mitzvah project" if the family so chooses.

• Picking the place.

• Choosing the music.

• Choosing and finding special entertainment that pertains to the theme.

• Choosing invitations either ordered or "homemade" and wording.

• Developing a way to honor your guests (traditionally, a candle-lighting)

• Developing ice-breakers and other special activities during the party.

• Helping your child understand their torah portion and helping with their speech writing.

• Helping parents with their speeches.

• Choosing ways to personalize the service and honor special guests and family members.

• How and what to explain to non-Jews about the service and the weekend.